Grief can be especially difficult during special days throughout the year, such as Mother’s Day.
We've collected some resources that may be of interest for those grieving their mothers or children on this holiday, or those who know someone who is.
Click the article titles below to read more on each topic.
Grieving the Loss of a Mother on Mother's Day
For some people, it will be a sad day, for others it may be a happy day, and some people will feel neither happy nor sad. For some people, it will be a day to remember your mum while others may want to avoid it, and each year may feel different.
Allow yourself to do whatever feels right to you. There is no right or wrong way to feel and there is no right or wrong way to spend the day.
Supporting the Bereaved on Mother's Day
Everyone grieves in their own way, and we simply can’t make assumptions about how people are feeling on Mother’s Day, or any day.
The best thing you can do is ask your people how they are feeling.
Supporting a Grieving Child: Staying connected with the person who died
"It’s a common misconception that when someone dies the goal is to “get over them” and “return to normal.” Our relationship with someone significant doesn’t end with their death. In fact, moving through grief involves finding new ways to continue that relationship, even though the person is no longer physically present."
How to help parents who are grieving on Mother’s Day
When someone loses a child, their world changes forever. Mother’s Day is just one of many days that make that loss feel even more profound. Bereaved parents may feel angry, cheated, heartbroken, or all of these at once—and they may worry they can’t be there fully for surviving children the way they want to be. Whether it’s the first or the fiftieth Mother’s Day after a child dies, part of a parent’s heart always belongs to their lost child. As Darcy Krause of the Center for Grieving Children puts it, “A child is a child no matter how old they are. In a mother’s or father’s heart, it’s their child.”